The reuniting of living believers with those who have died before the coming of our Lord is part of the "blessed hope" Christians look forward to (Titus 2:13).
The Christian should be able to confront death realistically yet victoriously. Though inevitable and often unexpected, death should never catch us completely off guard. Death should never be a "great unknown" that produces fear and terror; it should be, rather, the moment when we no longer see "in a mirror, dimly" but "face to face" (1 Corinthians 13:12).
Helping Strategy
1. If the inquirer is a Christian, bear in mind that preparing for death, or enduring bereavement, brings changes and adjustments. Try to be considerate and understanding: "Therefore comfort one another with these words" (1 Thessalonians 4:18). As you share Scriptures from the "Background," suggest that they be noted and later reviewed and possibly memorized for added strength and encouragement. Seek to guide the person to a new commitment and devotion to Christ. If there is any uncertainty about his or her relationship with Christ, share "Steps to Peace with God," page 11.
2. If the inquirer is not a Christian, emphasize that to be properly prepared for death a person must make the all-important decision about his or her eternal relationship during this lifetime. Invite him or her to receive Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior. Share "Steps to Peace with God," page 11.
3. Encourage reading and studying the Bible and cultivating habits of prayer.
4. Recommend becoming involved in a Bible-teaching church for fellowship, worship, and Bible study. This will also help the person to be constantly reassured as to the eternal hope that is ours as Christians.
Scripture
"Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil; for You are with me; Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me" (Psalm 23:4).
"I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in Me, though he may die, he shall live" (John 11:25).
"Let not your heart be troubled; you believe in God, believe also in Me. In